Comment by Lindsey Berthoud on July 5, 2012 at 16:22

Excellent! The best neighbourly relationship I have in my street is with the builders who converted the place I live in, and are now doing one across the road. They always say hello.

I love it that I always have a chat with the man in Nemi Dry Cleaners or get a wave when I walk past. He's super friendly. 

And there's a man I walk past a lot in the next street who's often out having a ciggie when I go to the station. We're definitely on nodding terms. 

Comment by Richard McKeever on July 5, 2012 at 16:37

I was thinking the other day about the impact of Wheelie Bins locally - whilst they are an ugly eyesore dominating otherwise pleasant front gardens - having to go "out the front" with the potato peelings or to the recycling bin has noticeably increased my "neighbour interactions" I am more frequently in a place where I see, and am visible to, my neighbours - even if it is only marked with a cursory nod!

Comment by Kathie Burke on July 6, 2012 at 16:19

I live in Highworth Road and have never had such great neighbours (since childhood, anyway, when gangs of us played in the street in Stoke Newington).  It's very normal to pop out to the bins (see Richard's comment above) and end up chatting with about half-a-dozen different people and getting earfuls of all the latest!  Also, having a recent injury, I've had people coming in to feed the cats, feed me, wait while I abluted in case of accident, even help me dress!  Really amazing kindness and consideration.  I lived in Southgate before but was only friends with one family; here it's like living in a village, but in London.

I think Bounds Green is a very special place with a wonderful character; we must watch out for the developers/flat-builders/old property-demolishers etc or else we'll be like the people on The Secret History of Our Streets, bemoaning the loss of something great.

Comment by Toby Travis on July 9, 2012 at 10:03

We've given our front garden (in Stanley Rd) a make-over, replacing the paving stones with plants and installing a bench made from old fence posts. Sitting there in the morning with a cup of coffee we have begun to slowly meet more of our neighbours - at first just a nod, then a hello, maybe a comment about the weather. It seemed awkward at first, even a little intrusive on people's privacy, but in general it has increased our sense of belonging in the street. Perhaps rethinking front gardens as pleasant spaces to pass the time rather than as a barrier or just a place to store wheelie bins would be an easy and cheap way to increase a general sense of neighbourliness.

Comment by sue coles on July 9, 2012 at 10:34

I've heard about the friendliness of Highworth Road residents but here too in Maidstone Road the neighbours are very friendly.  We had a tea party in the street last year and are hoping for a street party this September.  Yes, Bounds Green is a very special place.

Comment by Zaza S on July 9, 2012 at 14:29

I do agree that Bounds Green is special for many different reasons, but think there is a flip side -- people who have to know all there is to know and are not shy to ask (why is there a midwife's car outside that person's house? Did Y ask you to trim your eucalyptus? Why are those folks replacing their doors and spending good money?) I would be more than happy to help out where needed with pets, keys, deliveries or someone in Kathie's position but think the balance between friendliness and intrusiveness has to be considered. 

Comment by Antoinnette Flood on July 20, 2012 at 20:45

I love living in Bounds Green. My neighbours on Herbert road are very friendly and I know most of them. The children play together on the street, I have had a knock on my door several times with people bringing food. Its lovely. I wouldn't want to live any where else:)

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